Monday, November 30, 2009

It's about the turkey



It was a wonderful turkey -- and a wonderful day. Thanks, Anya and Max.

As far as Thanksgiving goes, I'm a traditionalist. I appreciate that the vegetarians and flexitarians among us won't eat turkey, and I'm willing to make an exception for grilled salmon or some fancy veggies, but for the rest of us? It's gotta be turkey. I'm almost shocked at the friends this year who had (in one case) pork loin with quinces or (in the other) roast goose a la perigord. These are delicious and special -- but they aren't Thanksgiving.

When I lived overseas, Thanksgiving was, more than Christmas or even the fourth of July, the holiday that brought Americans together. I remember how the women of the American expat community always struggled and improvised to put together something approaching a real Thanksgiving feast, successfully enough that our Non-American friends begged for invitations.

There was only one time that American imaginations failed. In Somalia we said the hell with it and went to the Chinese restaurant for sweet-and-sour wart hog. It just wasn't the same.

Every Thanksgiving, every family gathering, is a chance to reconnect. Sometimes, when times are bad, there's a feeling that we're circling the wagons. Other times, we celebrate growth and success. There's always the feeling: we're here. We made it through, and we're together.

And besides, there's the turkey.

2 comments:

Unknown said...

It's the holiday for which I like to invite non-Americans--we can talk about the American tradition of Thanksgiving and their country's similar traditions (sans turkey, of course). One year we had a fellow from India who'd been in the US five years or so. When I called to invite him, he said, "Thanksgiving? Oh, yes, I remember--pumpkin pie!" So much for the turkey as centerpiece.
For me, it's the stuffing--the kind that got cooked inside the turkey.

jenny said...

first of all, that turkey looks amazing! i wish i could have tasted it.
i love thanksgiving. it is such a holiday. glad you had a nice one.